Couples Therapy
“The glance is natural magic.
The mysterious communication established across a house between two entire strangers, moves all the springs of wonder.
The communication by the glance is in the greatest part not subject to the control of the will.
It is the bodily symbol of identity with nature.
We look into the eyes to know if this other form is another self,
and the eyes will not lie, but make a faithful confession what inhabitant is there.”
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
For my work with couples, I use a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) developed by Dr. Stan Tatkin. PACT is a fusion of attachment theory, arousal regulation, and developmental neuroscience and is guided by the concept of secure-functioning relationship. This concept of secure-functioning relationships is my therapeutic stance and guide. PACT is a “bottom-up” kind of therapy meaning that the PACT therapist uses their skills and creativity to create therapeutic enactments to discover the ways in which the couple is struggling and help them experience a different way to be in relationship with their partner in the safety of the therapy room.
Secure-functioning relationships are built to last, are based in true mutuality, justice, fairness, and win-wins for both partners. Helping a couple create a secure-functioning relationship is like helping them create their own bubble where both partner is safe, secure, and can grow both personally and professionally. I believe that everyone can learn how to have a secure-functioning relationship and it’s my job to help couples move in that direction.
If you’re interested in learning more about how I work or would like to speak to see if we’d be a good fit, please call me and we can set up a time to connect. I provide a complimentary 15 minute phone consultation to answer questions and set an initial assessment appointment.
*Please see my policy for billing insurance for couples counseling.